Once you have decided where you want to see your “away” game and have your tickets, depending on your location, your method of travel is the next item to consider. We traveled to games both before and after diagnosis and there came a time when a little extra consideration was required. I’m not a fan of wasting time travelling to my destination so in most cases, we flew. I realize for most people, this is a choice which may be motivated by any number of things. However, in my experience, flying is the best way to insure a pleasant journey for both. Most airlines are very accommodating when you make them aware that you or your travel partner has some limitations or needs. Most importantly they have onboard facilities you won’t have in your car. To anyone who may have mobility issues or who may not have the same stamina, embrace the airport wheelchair! Not only will you save your energy for the fun stuff but you get an extra hand. I have found the wheelchair transporters to be friendly, helpful and always willing to assist with luggage, rest room stops and any other requirements you may have especially when they know you have a legitimate need. They have all seen too many times, the wheelchair passenger who was there just for the perks. As soon as the plane lands and the passenger was wheeled off the jetway, a miracle happened and they were able to sprint to their ride.
Physical impairments are not always visible but honesty will always overshadow pride. Pursuing treatment and/or therapy always has the objective of regaining health and/or mobility with the ultimate goal of reclaiming your life. Be honest about what you can do and don’t be embarrassed to ask for help. A hallmark of maturity is knowing when help is needed and requesting it.
A last word on flying. Most cities have smaller regional airports that are worth looking into when making reservations. The distance to and from your home is much shorter, security is easier (especially if you are in a wheelchair) and the airports themselves are generally less congested. The one downside to this is that flying from these airports typically lengthens the trip since you will probably have to change planes or make a stop but even this comes with some good news. You won’t have to deal with the logistics of getting to and from the major airport.
I hope this gives you a small idea of how really uncomplicated it can be to give yourself the confidence to go to that dream destination.